Parenting Single Parenting

Turning 20, Teenhood to Adulthood! You have arrived.

Dear Romharsh,

On your 20th birthday, I want to express just how much you mean to me. As a single mom, you have been the sole purpose of my life and the light that has kept me going through all the ups and downs. Watching you grow into the remarkable young man you are today has been the greatest joy of my life. You have always been my rock, my support system, and my reason for pushing forward even in the toughest of times. Your kindness, intelligence, and empathy have touched the hearts of everyone who knows you, and I am so proud to call you my son.

I want you to know that no matter where life takes you, I will always be here to support you and love you unconditionally. You are the world to me, Romharsh, and I am so grateful for the countless memories and moments we have shared together.

As you enter this new year of your life, I wish you all the happiness, success, and fulfillment that you deserve. May you continue to be a shining example of all that is good in this world, and may your dreams and aspirations become a reality.


Happy birthday, my dear son. I love you more than words can express.

Happy 20th birthday! As you celebrate this special milestone and step into the 21st, I want to take a moment to recognize just how unique and exceptional you are. You are not an ordinary teenager, but a remarkable and wise young adult with a deep understanding of the world around you. It is a rare gift to possess such intelligence, curiosity, and thoughtfulness at such a young age, and I am constantly amazed by your insights and perspective on life. Your dedication to learning and growing is an inspiration to those around you, and I have no doubt that you will continue to make a positive impact on the world.

As you embark on another year of your journey, I wish you all the happiness, success, and fulfillment that life can offer. May your passion for knowledge and your thirst for adventure lead you to new and exciting places, and may you continue to grow and thrive in all aspects of your life.

On this special day, I  honor you, Romharsh,

A modern-day Chanakya, wise beyond your years,

With a passion for history and mythology,

And a heart that beats with a love for all that’s near.

Your thirst for knowledge and your hunger for truth,

Are the guiding lights that lead you on your way,

And as you journey through life’s endless maze,

 You shine brighter with each passing day.

For you are destined for greatness, we can see it in your eyes,

A leader and a scholar, with a heart that’s pure and kind,

And as you continue on your path, with courage and with grace,

You will leave an indelible mark on all of humankind.

So on this special day, I celebrate you, Romharsh,

And all that you are, and all that you will be,

For you are a beacon of hope, a symbol of light,

And the next Chanakya of this era, for all the world to see.

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Thank you for being such a wonderful son, and for all the joy and love you bring into our lives. Happy birthday, Romharsh!

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With love and admiration,

Your Chiksy

Parenting Single Parenting

Sad Sunny Sunday

I woke up very early today but didn’t know what to do!

Yesterday I read about J K Rowling and I realised that she too was a Single Parent and she lived on Society Benefits till she became JK from Joanna.

But in my Country India, there is no such support too and hence many single moms are left helpless 

Serendipity is a beautiful expression and while I was scrolling through my feed I came across the name Transgender activist Shreegauri Sawant popularly known as Gauri Sawant who proudly plays the role of a single mother to Gayatri.

I kept wondering that she too is a single parent and so was JK Rowling, were their journeys easy, No not at all, so should I give up, no I will not yet is it easy, no it is Not.

Every day I find strength for myself and every day I break again, but how far will this continue? This has to stop and it’s not our fault that we are raising our kids alone, we didn’t choose it willingly unless that was the only choice we had.

What rights do we need, we are not asking you to give us special benefits or give us child support, if I could bear the pain of giving birth to a child I can raise my child but all we need is the right to live happily, let us raise our head high and live, stop judging us, you women there you should understand my pain cos we are same we both have a womb to bear a life but why is it that a single mom is always looked down upon by other women as if the only thing that we now seek is to steal their husbands,  Sorry but my reaction F… off, all we need is a friendly place to talk and gather strength to face the world so Stop judging us